Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Red Velvet Cake

I saw The Vow this weekend

and it was perfect

Of course Channing Tatum was spicy and oh so sexy

and Rachel McAdams was as lovely and charming as ever

But it was the story line that was so perfect

I've heard mixed reviews.....that "it was no Notebook" or that it was "too hyped up."

But to me it was perfect

To me it was a glimpse of what love should be like. And not movie-love. Real love. Every day love. Lasting love.

The couple in the story genuinely enjoyed each other. And were kind to one another. And so in love all at the same time.

Is that so unrealistic? So unreachable? I hope not.

I'm crazy in  love with their vows....though not traditional, they were so personal. Full of love. Full of life.
Simple but passionate
And Forever

"I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness, and to have the patience that love demands. To speak when words are needed, and to share the silence when they're not. To agree to disagree on red velvet cake, and to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home."  


Maybe Valentine's Day isn't about having a Valentine. Maybe it's about learning what you want in one. 

And maybe it's true.....that the moments of impact in life that we may not understand
Moments we never saw coming
or Imagined could ever happen to us
That maybe took us by surprise
Can change us forever.  

To finding our Valentine's or to the one's whose hearts we already call home. 
Happy Valentine's Day,



Jess - PrettyPhysicist said...

Beautiful. Happy Valentine's Day love!

Angel said...

eek i can't wait to see it! i think i'm going this weekend with kate.
Happy valentine's day!! i love you and miss you - have a fabulous day!!

Whitney said...

saw it last night and LOVED it. just a pure love story... not over glamorized and unrealistic like the Notebook (while i do love the notebook!) but real, down to earth, exactly what would happen in that situation, LOVE. so sweet.

P!nky said...

Happy Happy Valentine's day girlie! So happy to have you as a friend!!!

Your perfect valentine is out there...he is just getting ready for you!!!



Young and Fabulous said...

ugh melt my heart. i cant wait to see this movie!

and ashley your posts always put such a happy smile on my face! :-) I love your thoughts on valentines day...it really is about learning what you have with the person you're with or want to be with!

Happy Valentines day pretty girl!!


Jenna said...

This post makes me smile huge! Those vows are perfect :)

The Vow isn't coming out here for a few more weeks I don't think, but after reading this I'm totally going to see it when it does... and I'm going to drag my bf along with!

Happy V-day pretty lady!


Jamie said...

I cant wait to see it. Happy Valentines!

Virginia said...

Aww! Sweet post! I am hoping to see The Vow this weekend, or sooner!

TaraR said...

This post made me tear up all over again ha! I saw the movie twice and bawled like a baby each time. I agree, what a statement of true love. I also youtubed the interview with the real couple, if you haven't done it - do so. It's precious.

Happy Valentine's Day!
Tara xo

Sarah said...

aw :) this is so cute! I haven't seen the vow yet....kind of putting it off for a while but I definitely want to at some point. happy valentine's day pretty girl!!! xoxo

Whitney @ Everything Happens For a Reason said...

I saw it and though it was alright. I wanna go see again to see if I still have the same impression. I adore Rachel McAdams and especially the pink dress she wore in the film. Did you know that it was based on a true story and there's a book about it: Kim and Krickitt Carpenter.

Happy Valentine's Day!

jayme said...

happpppy valentine's day doll face!!!!!!!!!!

KRISTIN said...

I love this! Happy Valentine's Day lady!

arianapia said...

LOVED the vow. I thought it was simply wonderful and SO real.

I think maybe that's why some people didn't like it. Because the love is too real and the situation too real for them to escape their lives.

A Moments of Impact is all it takes.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Ashley said...

Beautiful post! I can't wait to see The Vow.

Elizabeth said...

Such a beautiful post hun! I saw The Vow over the weekend and I loved it. I thought it had its cheesy parts, but I still loved it. Their vows were beautiful. The way you could see their love for one another was beautiful. Channing's butt was beautiful. Haha! This will definitely be a movie I will buy on dvd!

Karolyn Tracy said...

I love this post! This V-Day I am still single, but hopefully this will not be a trend, but I agree with your last few statements and yes, taking the time to learn what a true Valentine means and is, is important!
I also LOVE Rachel McAdams and still wish she was with Ryan Gosling, unless of course he decides to have me instead. Happy Valentine's Day!

Sami said...

I loved it too! They really did seem like a couple who loved everything about each other and I want to be like that with my significant other some day. I thought their vows were adorable too! Plus I enjoyed seeing that little view of Channing Tatum's butt haha ooops!

Alex said...

I saw it last night with my bffs and just bawled over these vows!!

Shayla Y.F.F. said...

now I REALLY want to see it. Did you know its based on a true story. I read an article about the real couple...SO CUTE! I'll try to find it and send it to you.

CMae said...

Not sure if you ever read my blog anymore I did a whole post on the book which the movie was loosely based off of. I didn't like the movie, but really it was only because I knew/read the story of Kim and Krickett Carpenter. They were on Oprah a few years back telling their story too.

Anyway, happy V day!

Brianna said...

I saw it on Saturday and looooved it too!!
The vows were so perfect (:
Happy Valentine's Day!!! xo

Tiffany said...

"Maybe Valentine's Day isn't about having a Valentine. Maybe it's about learning what you want in one."

Love this line in your blog! I saw The Vow on Saturday night and really liked it. I wish the ending had been a little different...I felt like they just stopped, but other than that I loved it!


Sara Louise said...

Happy Valentines Day (a day late!)
I CANNOT wait to see The Vow, but I really want to see it in English so I think I'm going to have to hold out for the dvd because some things just do translate.
And Channing Tatum is always yummy! :)

Anonymous said...

I think you're right. Love needs to be simple and uncomplicated.

Hope you get to love like that ;)


Ashley said...

totally in LOVE with this post! seriously! i'm so glad to hear you enjoyed the movie. i'm sooo looking forward to seeing it...it looks so cute and all that romantic stuff! lol.

that quote from the movie is super sweet!

i'm a hopeless romantic and love the idea of being in love!

hope you had a wonderful valentine's day, ash! ;)

I am Megan said...

I still haven't watched the notebook, is that bad? This looks like a cute movie, I'll check it out, thanks for the heads up!

hannahstiff said...

It was pretty good. My question: if you woke up from a coma and Channing Tatum was claiming to be your husband, would you really question it!??:) Just found your blog, via comment on Daybook. Following you on GFC. SO CUTE. I love that you're cooking challenged, too. I don't feel so bad now! Come say hi & follow back if ya feel like it.
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Renee said...

I want to see this! I'm going to cry though I just know it so I'm going to wait to rent! And those vows are beautiful!!

Tabitha Mahoney said...

I want to see this movie so bad.

Happy Valentines day

Ashley said...

I absolutely loved this post. So beautiful and SO true. I can't wait to see the movie-- it looks right up my alley :) Ps. their vows?! I die. So genuine and sweet!

allthatsgoldglitters.blogspot.com said...

Thank you Ashley for stopping by and posting! I appreciate that! Yes, pink shorts are a must, I got a pair last summer and surprisingly they go with A LOT of things!

Rach @ This Italian Family said...

Aww, I am SO excited to see this movie! I know I will love it!

jessica {creative index} said...

i can't wait to see it!! i seriously love that pink dress she wears!

Rachel Larson said...

I feel the same way about this movie! I left thinking, "I wish it was more of a classic love movie," and "It wasn't quite the Notebook." But I realized what you said, it was so real. I've never seen such a sincere and real love in a movie before. It made my heart so happy! LOVED it :)